For Honeygirl, her actual birthday was the same day as Grandpa Sherbie's funeral. Certainly not normal, but we chowed down on cupcakes after getting home from the funeral. A brutal reminder that life does go on.
The actual party got postponed to the following weekend though. At her request, we had a princess party. She got to invite a few of her friends, plus we invited a couple families we are good friends with. We kept it fairly small, which was nice.